Wednesday, December 21, 2005

單身

仍然單身是否一種遺憾呢?雖然天主說人孤獨不好,要給人一個相稱的助手,可是,很多人還在愛情的道路中奮鬥、尋覓、等待。那究竟單身是否就變成了遺憾呢?

現實中,很多人都自願選擇過獨身的生活,而且樂於享受過這樣的生活,就像選擇過獨身生活的神父、修女,或其他宗教的僧侶;當然,亦有一些被迫過獨身生活的,他們可能因為經歷太多,或者總是遇不上適合的人,或者錯過了,然而,他們仍過得很快活自在。

我相信人有能力選擇適合自己的生活模式,只要我們懂得調適自己的想法。刻下沒有伴侶嗎?那就樂於享受過獨身生活的自由自在,花多點時間去關心自己的父母朋友,多點時間發展自己的事業理想,多點時間去思索生命的方向意義,多點時間鍛鍊自己的身體,培養自己的興趣,盡情享受完全屬於自己的生活。

1 comment:

Andy Kwok said...

For me, I guess I missed a lot of chance of chasing girls during college, but I knew that I needed to get my degree ASAP, so that's why I spent more time in my education, rather than partying/going out, you know? By the time I finished college, I focused another thing again - that's my career, although I started to find my companion, yet I simply couldn't find anyone. After I settled down with my job, it became a little bit late but never too late for finding a suitable companion.. Anyway, I'm sure God has a plan for me to serve in Him ;)

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